“As soap is to the body, so laughter is to the soul.” – Yiddish Proverb
Texting with a friend after she’d had a rough night of despair at the state of the world. I asked her how she slept and what she’s doing for herself. She writes back:
“I go through the alphabet and choose calming words - awareness, breath, etc. When I got to Y, the first word that came to mind was yodeling. That's positive, isn't it?”
I get to giggling and texting yodeling memes.
Trouble knocked at the door, but, hearing laughter, hurried away. ~ Benjamin Franklin
At dinner with a friend. Talking about the reckless destruction in our country, our loss of humanity, the cruelty. Then somehow I am telling stories of my brief elementary school theatrical career.
In 5th Grade, I’d wanted with all my awkward 11-year-old heart to be Truly Scrumptious in Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. When I hadn’t gotten into the play at all, I cried for so long that I gave myself a sinus infection. When someone unexpectedly dropped out of the show, I got to be in the chorus. You could see my chapped nose from the audience.
In 6th Grade, I was cast as Snoopy, complete with a costume hood with ears that flew up when I pulled a string (every time the wires got more hopelessly tangled in my hair). At some point in every performance, I’d look around the silent stage and think, “SOMEbody’s forgotten their line.” It was me. Every. single. time.
The world is still a hopeless mess. But my friend and I laugh until we are breathless.
“Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut
Friday night at the end of a long, depressing week. I listlessly scroll through my email and find this poem linked at the end of Lael Jepson’s blog post:
At Albany Bulb with Elaine
By Alison Luterman
Side by side on a log by the bay.
Sunlight. Unleashed dogs,
prancing through surf, almost exploding
out of their skins with perfect happiness.
Dogs who don't know about fired park rangers,
or canceled health research, or tariff wars,
or the suicide hotline for veterans getting defunded,
or or or. We've listed horror upon horror
to each other for weeks now, and it does no good,
so instead I tell her how I held a two-day old baby
in my arms, inhaling him like a fresh-baked loaf of bread,
then watched as a sneeze erupted through his body
like a tiny volcano. It was the look of pure
astonishment on his face, as if he were Adam
in the garden of Eden making his debut achoo,
as if it were the first sneeze that ever blew,
that got me. She tells me how her dog
once farted so loudly he startled himself
and fell off the bed where he'd been lolling,
and then the two of us start to laugh so hard
we almost fall off our own log. And this
is our resistance for today; remembering
original innocence. And they can't
take it away from us, though they ban
our very existence, though they slash
our rights to ribbons, we will have
our mirth and our birthright gladness.
Long after every unsold Tesla
has vaporized, and earth has closed over
even the names of these temporary tyrants,
somewhere some women like us
will be sitting side by side, facing the water,
telling human stories and laughing still.
Ski goggle kitty.
I mean, come on.
“Laughter connects you with people. It’s almost impossible to maintain any kind of distance or any sense of social hierarchy when you’re just howling with laughter. Laughter is a force for democracy.” ~ John Cleese
Laugh. Find something. Anything. Go watch the ski goggle kitty again. No matter how low brow or silly, choose something that gets you to giggling. “[Y]our mirth and [y]our birthright gladness” is a radical act of freedom.